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Dougisms
(Quotes
by Doug Kelley)
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Do
you have greatness to deliver? THEN
BE ABOUT IT!
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People
want to be in the USA! They want to feel Unique, Special, and
Appreciated.
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So
often in life, that which takes a short time to neglect, takes a long time
to correct.
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What
kind of business are we in? We
are in the relationship business! Everything
you do hinges on your relationships with other people. Things only
matter to the extent that they benefit somebody.
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Lack
of communication will kill any relationship.
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Definition
of Motivation: “To
provide a meaningful reason to
do something.”
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You
cannot control or change other people. Furthermore, it is immoral to try.
You
can, however, have a positive influence and impact on others.
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A
sure-fire recipe for disaster in any relationship: One
person trying to change or control the other.
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Never do for others that which
they could and should do for themselves. To practice doing so is codependent.
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To
Yield or Not to Yield…
If
it is a matter of preference, then yield.
If
it is a matter of principle, policy, or law, then stand firm.
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WHAT I DO IS NOT NECESSARILY
WHO I AM. |
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THE THOUGHTS YOU CHOOSE, RULE. |
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THE LAW OF MOMENTUM:
"WHEN YOU ARE
UP, THE UNIVERSE WORKS TO KEEP YOU UP. WHEN YOU ARE DOWN, THE UNIVERSE
WORKS TO KEEP YOU DOWN." |
Doug’s
Now or Later Rule:
If
you have a problem, you have a choice: You can either take care of
the problem now, or suffer longer and STILL take care of it later.
Either way, you WILL take care of it eventually, or die from the
pain.
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PERSEVERANCE
ALWAYS WINS. WHO IS MORE PERSISTENT, YOU? OR THE PROBLEM? |
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FUNDAMENTAL PRINCIPLE OF SUCCESS IN ANYTHING:
"Do what you should do, when you should do it."
-- Thomas
Huxley, adapted by Doug Kelley |
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Truth exists, only falsehood has to be constructed. |
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Nothing
is impossible--We merely don't know how to do it yet.
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People
are likely to accept Change more if
they have a part in it, or if they are informed about it before
hand—even when the Change is beyond their control.
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Many
people squander their resources searching for a Magic Pill for
their problems, never quite grasping that they are the
Pharmacist.
—Doug
Kelley & Patrick Stone
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Doug's
Favorite Quotes
(Quotes
by Others)
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When
you open your mind to possibilities, there is no closing it again.
—Tracy Kelley, Writer
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Judgmentalism
requires far less mental effort than empathy. --
Tracy Kelley, Writer
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The
subtle difference between Motivation and Empowerment: Motivation
only affects one’s emotions for the moment. Empowerment means to
leave one with thoughts they are unable to dismiss. --Tracy
Kelley, Writer
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We
ought not live in the shadow of our worst moments. --F. Richard
Kelley
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"If
I were to try to read, much less to answer, all the attacks made
on me, this shop might as well be closed for any other business.
I do the very best I know how--the very best I can; and I mean
to keep on doing so until the end. If the end brings me out all
right, then what is said against me won't matter. If the end
brings me out wrong, then ten angels swearing I was right would
make no difference."
-- Abraham Lincoln, adopted by Doug Kelley
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Cherokee Wisdom
An old Cherokee is teaching his grandson about life.
"A fight is going on inside me," he said to the boy.
"It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is
evil. He is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt,
resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.
The other is good. He is joy, peace, love,
hope, serenity, humility, kindness,
benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth,
compassion, and faith. This same fight
is going on inside you, and inside
every other person, too."
The grandson thought about it for a minute
and then asked his grandfather, "Which
wolf will win?"
The old Cherokee replied simply, "The one you feed."
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Man's many desires are
like the small metal coins he carries around in his pocket. The more he
has, the more they weigh him down. --Unknown
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If the brain were so simple we could understand
it, we would be so simple we couldn't.
-- Lyall Watson, biologist |
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He who knows much
about others may be learned, but he who understands himself is more intelligent.
He who controls others may be powerful, but he who has mastered himself
is mightier still. --Unknown |
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"When
you have eliminated the impossible, whatever remains, however improbable,
must be the truth" -- Sherlock Holmes |
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"I can teach anybody how to get what they want
out of life. The problem is that I can't find anybody who can tell me what
they want." -- Mark Twain |
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We forfeit three-fourths
of ourselves to be like other people.
-- Arthur Schopenhauer 1788-1860 |
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Talk is cheap. Words are
plentiful. Deeds are precious.
-- H Ross Perot |
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Half of being smart is
knowing what you are dumb about.
-- Solomon Short |
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I am more and more convinced
that our happiness or our unhappiness depends far more on the way we meet
the events of life than on the nature of those events themselves.
-- Wilhelm
von Humboldt |
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We're all in this alone. -- Lily Tomlin |
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The road to success is always
under construction. -- Lily Tomlin |
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Isaac
Asimov when asked what he would do if he only had six months to live: "Type
faster." |
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Nature has placed mankind under the government
of two sovereign masters, pain and pleasure...they govern us in all we
do, in all we say, in all we think: every effort we can make to throw off
our subjection, will serve but to demonstrate and confirm it.
-- John Bentham |
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Let us endeavor so to live that when we come
to die even the undertaker will be sorry. -- Mark Twain |
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Whatever you are, be a good one. -- Abraham
Lincoln |
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If we could read the secret history
of our enemies, we should find in each man's life sorrow and suffering
enough to disarm all hostility.
-- Henry Wadsworth Longfellow |
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Fear knocked on the door. Faith answered and
found no one there. -- Unknown |
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It is possible to commit no mistake and
still lose. That is not a weakness, that is life. -- Jean Luc Picard
[From Star Trek] |
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ENJOY THE MOMENT
OF NOW! |
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Great Potential is one of life's heaviest
burdens. -- Byrd Baggett |
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May you live all the days of
your life. --Jonathan Swift |
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There is no shortcut to life. To the end of
our days, life is a lesson imperfectly learned. --Harrison E. Salisbury |
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Survival strategy: "Laugh whenever you can,
cry whenever you need to, appreciate the little things in life, and learn
to roll with the punches."--Unknown |
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There are always alternatives. --Doctor Who |
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The
best way to have what you want, is to want what you have. -- Unknown |
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Both poverty and riches are the offspring
of thought. -- Unknown |
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THINGS DO NOT CHANGE. WE CHANGE.
--Henry David Thoreau |
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Spend your life lifting people up, not putting
people down. --Unknown |
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When there
is a hill to climb, don't think that waiting will make it smaller. --Unknown |
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Every person that you meet knows something you don't; learn from
them. --Unknown |
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Remember that the more you know, the less you
fear. --Unknown |
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Don't burn
bridges. You'll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same
river. --Unknown |
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Don't let weeds grow around your
dreams. --Unknown |
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Our thoughts determine our responses to life. We are not victims
of the world. To the extent that we control our thoughts, we control the
world. --Unknown |
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A FOOL-PROOF METHOD
FOR SCULPTING AN ELEPHANT: First,
get a huge block of marble; then chip away everything that doesn't look
like an elephant. --Unknown |
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A person is just about as big
as the things that make them angry. --Unknown |
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Give me ambiguity or give
me something else. --Unknown |
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Always remember
you're unique, just like everyone else. --Unknown |
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Remember that what's right isn't
always popular, and what's popular isn't always
right. --Unknown |
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"WE STRUGGLE ALONG WITH WHAT WE
HAVE, WHERE WE ARE; AND A LOT OF TIMES WE CAN’T SEE WHERE WE ARE GOING,
BUT WE NEVER KNOW WHEN A TINY SEED SOWN WILL COME TO HARVEST." --
DR. ERNEST A. FITZGERALD, "HOW TO BE A SUCCESSFUL FAILURE"
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The urge to beauty and the
need for beautiful and gracious and lovely things in life is as vital a need as the urge for
bread. --Luther Burbank
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Until
you make peace with who you are, you'll never be content with what you
have" --Unknown |
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Failure is
an event. It is not a person. --Unknown |
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To those
who understand: No explanation is necessary. To those who don't understand:
No explanation will suffice. --Unknown |
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It's not
easy taking my problems one at a time when they refuse to get in line!
--Unknown |
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Don't wait for a crisis to discover what is important
in your life. --Unknown |
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Never Let
Yesterday Use Up Today. --Unknown |