Helping Your Team to Embrace Change

  By Doug Kelley, CH, CSL • February 2006

 

Why do so many people resist change?

 

This is a good question when you consider that most of our lives include a lot of change. Whenever a question such as this comes up, I like to approach it from a fresh standpoint and get to the bottom of what it is really about. I keep asking “Why?” until I can’t ask “Why?” anymore.

 

Many reasons exist as to why so many people resist change. Among those reasons are comfort zones. We generally like the things we feel comfortable with simply because we’ve become accustomed to them. To change requires effort, and we generally don’t want to expend effort to change things with which we are comfortable. This is the human trait of seeking the path of least resistance.

 

But we can go beyond comfort zones in our efforts to discover the answer to why people resist change. The next stop is fear, and more precisely, fear of the unknown. Most of our fears are irrational in nature and are based on our “real,” not real “real” (whatever that is!). Zig Ziglar described F.E.A.R. as “False Evidence Appearing Real.” While some fears are legitimate, most of our fears are not based on real evidence, but on false evidence.

 

So why do we find fear of the unknown so prevalent in human nature? As we continue to “peel the onion layers away,” we find at the core “loss of control.” It all boils down to this: we resist change because we ultimately fear losing control. A powerful and driving trait of human nature is the “need to control” and people tend to resist change because they are afraid they won’t know what to do, or won’t be able to do what they need to do when things change.

 

Think of a time when your organization made significant changes (beyond your control), but didn’t inform you until after the fact. When this happened, did you lament saying, “Why couldn’t they have told us about it before they made these changes?”

 

From a logical standpoint, this mindset makes no logical sense. When upper management makes changes beyond our control and informs us about it before hand, what do we often do? We gripe; we complain; we adapt, and we move on. But what happens when they make the changes, but don’t inform us before hand? We gripe; we complain; we adapt, and we move on. The same thing. There is no difference, logically speaking.

 

But as it turns out, we humans are not solely logical beings. We are also emotional, and herein lies a lesson to keep in mind when helping your team to deal more effectively with change:

 

People are likely to accept change more if they have a part in it, or if they are informed about it before hand—even when the change is beyond their control.

 

What’s the lesson? When we are informed about changes before hand (even undesirable changes), we still feel more in control than being informed after the fact, even if it is only an illusion.

 

Communicate and involve your team in change whenever possible. This is also called “Shared Leadership.” For example, if you are instructed to streamline some process that will involve changing your procedures, get your team involved in the streamlining process. Have a brainstorming session to get their input. They still may not initially like the fact that things are changing, but at least they will be inclined to buy into the changes because they had a part in deciding those changes. By doing this, you give them as much control as possible, and changes are not as big a problem when we feel in control.

 

But what about changes that have already been decided for you and now you must inform your team? Get them together as you normally would, inform them about the upcoming changes, and then let them vent. Don’t fight it. Once they have had a chance to vent, now direct them in a positive and proactive manner to brainstorm the best ways to adapt to the changes with the least amount of headaches. Give them as much control as possible, and you just might get more buy-in than otherwise.

 

The key to helping people accept change is to give them as much control as possible.  

 

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